I am 34, you know...", for example), their talking everyday may not be something worth your concern.
On the other hand, while mom and son may not see or talk to one another very often, if he can't make a decision in his life without her approval or validation, that's a sign of a seriously unhealthy attachment.
If they care about you and are emotionally invested in you, they will make time for you.
The most common way they'll do it is by taking time out of their day and keeping in contact with you.
Luckily, veterans in the dating scene can offer advice, and these signs are often surefire indicators that he really is emotionally invested in you.
Guys have a tendency of focusing on the things that they care the most about.
Whether it's all the time he spends in his mother's presence or all the speeches and lectures she's given him on how to treat a lady, whatever she did, it worked. You find yourself constantly frustrated with her sticking her nose in your business.
So our question, do the positives of dating a mama's boy outweigh the negative? First up, here's the tell tale signs that mom will always be his number one woman. Moms always want to know what their son’s are up to and if they’re willing to spill the beans (which most mama’s boys are) they’ll manipulate him to get him to talk.
Q: What's the difference between a man having a "healthy" attachment to his mother and an "unhealthy" one? Mandel: While you might find it odd that he's calling or even visiting his mother daily, the frequency of contact a guy has with his mom doesn't determine how healthy or unhealthy his attachment is to her. If both mom and son have mutual respect for one another and have set good boundaries with each other (if he's able to say "Thanks but no thanks for the new underwear you bought me, Ma.Some love to file court hearings at the drop of a hat and there is the potential for you, if you are living or ultimately married to him, to be pulled into these post-marital dramas. Many of you may have found out the hard way that your new love had lousy boundaries with his ex.If he has a friendly relationship with his ex, how friendly is it? The ex dropped by, came into the home and maybe even had a key! In his eyes nothing is better than his mom's home cooking. He always says ‘my mom’s is the best’ or ‘sorry honey, you can't beat my mom’s’. All of the sudden he's swinging off trees, doesn’t feel well, and is exhausted. If mom doesn't like what you're wearing or how you decorated the house he comes running for you to change it.