If you are constantly asking us whether you look fat and are trying to use us as your emotional crutch it is no fun and we’ll be out that door.
Sure, everyone goes through a few moments of doubt and that’s ok but if a partner suffers from a myriad of self esteem issues then it is utterly exhausting. Criticizing us in front of others This is inexcusable as we feel we are being belittled by someone who should be by our side, supporting us.
Even if you’re in an open relationship, there are still (usually) some agreed upon rules or understandings.Not on the profile, but when they msg you out of nowhere and the first thing they say is sexual.I legitimately had a guy msg me, “I want to shoot in your mouth” as a first msg.We are happy to pay for dates but please offer to pay and make sure that you pick up the tab occasionally and if we have just started dating demand that we buy you a watch from Tiffany’s – buy it yourself. Sure, you can nag us to wash the dishes but to constantly pick on a guy who likes to stay at home in order for him to go clubbing with you every Saturday night is not on. Talking too much We do like to listen but just not the time.Let us get a word in edgewise; we are known to be rather intelligent too. Flightyness When we enter into a relationship with a girl we really like we don’t appreciate being messed around.